History of Friendship Day
Come
the first Sunday of August and all the young people around the globe, who are
even remotely aware of the significance of the day, indulge in a joyous
celebration of Friendship Day.
With Friendship Day coming up once more, you too must be waiting
enthusiastically to celebrate the holiday? But are you sure you know enough
about Friendship Day? Do you know about the history of Friendship Day; when the day come to be
celebrated first, or when this day came to be declared as a holiday? If you
don't, scroll down and read our informative article to know about the
fascinating history of Friendship Day.
The tradition of celebrating Friendship Day
began in 1935 when the US Congress decided to dedicate a day in the honor of
friends. Though it is not known exactly what were the reasons that went into
the making of this day, the retrospection of the world scenario of those times
can lead us to an understanding. With the devastating effects of the First
World War still showing and increasing hostilities, mistrust and hatred between
countries providing the perfect conditions for another imminent battle, there was a greater need
for friendship and camaraderie not only among nations but also among
individuals.
Hence, the US
Congress decided to designate the first Sunday of the month of August as Friendship Day
and with a formal proclamation in 1935, officially declared the occasion a
holiday dedicated in the honour of friends and friendship. Since then,
celebration of National Friendship Day became an annual event. The
lofty idea of honoring the beautiful relationship of friendship caught
on with the people, particularly the youngsters all over the country, and in no
time Friendship Day became a highly popular festival.
But the success of this wonderful occasion was not to be limited to the US alone.
With time, several other countries followed suit in adopting the tradition of
dedicating a day to the cause of friendship. The beautiful idea of having
a day in the honor of friends was joyously taken over by several other
countries across the world. With more and more nations joining in the celebrations, Friendship Day soon became
International Friendship Day.
Today, Friendship Day is
enthusiastically celebrated every year by many countries. The occasion is
observed on the first Sunday of every August. The traditional celebrations include
meeting with friends and exchanging of cards, flowers and
gifts. Many social and cultural
organizations also celebrate Friendship Day by hosting programs and
get togethers. Special performances by rock bands are also organized in
countries like the US to enhance the jubilations.
In 1997, the United Nations named Winnie - the
Pooh, the famous cartoon character as the world's Ambassador of Friendship.
It is interesting to note how some associations
observe Friendship Day with different customs, by giving the festival
different names and holding it in times unlike that of the actual festival.
For example, National Friendship Day
is held on the first Sunday in August; Women's Friendship Day is on
the third Sunday in August; the third week of May is the Old Friends, New
Friends Week and the whole of February is designated as the International Friendship Month.
These days, Friendship Day is
celebrated with a lot of fanfare and great expenses. Just as in US and several
other countries, the festival has been greatly commercialized.
Days before the festival, card and gift
companies launch an extensive campaign to lure people into buying cards and
gift items for their friends. Companies indulge in aggressive marketing to
target youngsters, the main celebrators of festivals as these, and entice them
into purchasing expensive articles for their pals. Restaurateurs too offer
special discounts to make the most of the time. This marketing strategy has
been severely criticized by many people and is a subject of debate every year.
Many feel that such rampant commercialization has marred the very concept of Friendship Day and has
turned it into a mere formality. Many on the other hand think that greater hype
and hoopla around the occasion has helped to generate awareness about Friendship Day
festival which was till recently a low-key affair (compared to occasions as
"Mother's Day" and "Father's Day") and thus promote friendship and
brotherhood.
The popular customs of Friendship Day
includes handing over roses, especially the pink and yellow ones. The day is
observed with great exhilaration and merriment, with friends throwing parties,
gorging on lip-smacking dishes and drinking hard (be it at home or at
restaurants that offer special discounts for this occasion).
A highly popular thing associated with the day
is the well-known Friendship Band - the modern day token of friendship that
friends gift to one another to form an everlasting bond. Friendship bands
are favorite items for youngsters and are available in stores all over the
country. Girls go in for friendship bracelets instead of the
conventional friendship wristbands. Friendship Poems and Friendship Day
Gifts are exchanged between best friends to renew the bond of friendship and
express gratitude and love for each other. These are new ways of celebration of
this day that the GenX has invented.
Since its inception in 1935, Friendship Day
and Friendship Day celebrations have come a long way. But
however much the ways of celebration have changed, the basic idea behind the
occasion remains the same. Friendship Day remains the time when you
acknowledge your friends' contribution in your life, express love for them,
cherish their presence in your life and pay them a tribute.
Today, Friendship Day is being
celebrated around the globe, across diverse cultures and social segments.